The World As I See It

Boys Will Be Boys Vs Ladies & Whores

Expressing sexually has changed dramatically over the last one hundred years. During the time I grew up there has always been a double standard about men and women. If I guy slept around it was widely accepted if not expected. If a girl did the same she was branded with ugly words like whore or slut, tramp or even more colorful words. So why is this? I talked with many men and women about it but found that when many men are talked to that they feel don't live in a double standard. I wonder though how many times they called a girl that had more experience than them a whore. It seems that today that once they leave school (whether it be high school or college) they lose the mentality about it. Or was it just lies to please the woman that they were talking to? Will I am going to give these guys a benefit of the doubt and say that it is great that they have such an open mind.

When asked about if he felt that women's sexuality is expressed more equally than 50 years ago, Ash 21 from Texas said, "Not really, now they are insulted them...back then were only not allowed to wear certain clothes. I think they were treated more fairly back in the day! They just had more limited freedoms and all."

Mike 18 from New York when asked if he would seriously date or marry a woman that had more partners than he had stated, " No, because if I was going to marry someone their partners (may have been) better than me."

Yan 25 from Michigan only has one way of thinking of women. Simply put, "All woman are bitches and whores." "Good only to fuck then lose when I am bored." Of course he isn't a man-whore (or whoremonger) when he sleeps around himself. He "just has not other use for them."

Ash says, "I wouldn't think about (if she had more partners than him), but I'd be a little worried of we 'did it' and about my 'performance'...but I think most men worry about that. Mostly if she want to be with me that's all I'd need...If she truly loved me that's all I need from her, nothing more nothing less."

Mike isn't sure why he feels there is a double standard. He isn't sure if friends & family or what influences the idea that it is ok for guys but not girls to have casual sex. He says it most definitely exsists.

As I traveled backwards in age I found there is huge double standard. Also that there is excussion of boys by the older generations as well. Girls are thought to be prefect little angels if they keep their virginity, and little sluts if they give it up for any reason. Where does it all come from? It has been handed down to the generations. Fathers and mothers try pushing it from the start. Funny isn't then to find out that the average age in many states is getting younger and younger for girls. I have met many males & female that lost their virginty at 8 years old. I have never heard of an 8 year old slut. Yet we judge a persons whole personality by how many people they admit to sleeping with. I must say I have been a hypoctrite about that myself. When I was teenager I had the idea that no guy was good enough for me if he wasn't a virgin himself. I would dump a guy if they didn't meet my standard. I found that my thinking is flawed. It would be nice to be with someone that didn't sleep with the ENTIRE volleyball team, but if he was a good guy and wanted to settle down then the only thing I care about is if I am going to be helping raise someone elses kids, or if there is a possiblity of getting a disease. If any of you have ever read my thoughts about Stone, then you know that the fact he sleeps around has never bothered me. I would care what he did as long as he came home disease- and baby- free. I am totally not interested in raising his kids. Unless there were special curcumstances. Stone is a major man-whore, with opnions identical to Yan (from above).

I find that is it funny that guys feel this way. In a future article I wish to discuss what woman think about this issue.

posted by Kodokuna Kitsune @ 4:35 AM